Obsession: Being the Target

I have recounted briefly my long obsession with “Janice.” Now, I will tell you what it is like to be obsessed by someone you casually know. I will call the woman in question “Judy.” An Innocent Beginning Judy worked on the same floor as I did at a community college. We were in different departments, [...]

Obsession: Desiring the Unattainable

“One way or another, I’m gonna win you, I’m gonna get you, get you, get you, get you.” ~ “One Way or Another” by Blondie Being Honest with Myself It’s embarrassing to admit to having an obsession, but I feel that it is important to bring attention to the subject. Many people have been the [...]

Obsession: Experienced from Both Sides

I have a confession to make: I have experienced what it is like to be obsessed with someone, someone that doesn’t even care about me. While I never was a stalker in the traditional sense – at least I certainly hope not – I’m sure I have caused stress in this woman’s life because of [...]